Comparison?
Is an awful thing to do between two people or anyone but yourself.
Comparing someone to someone else? not only it is disencouraging oneself but, also pressurising. Unless one takes it as a challenge for the better; why not?
By comparing, will get you to no where or come even close to halfway whatever you're trying to achieve & so I find it rather annoying how when we're having family gathering once awhile and the old people will go " My daughter doing this, that or My son now this, that" WHY? you dont get a pot of gold or a sign on ya head saying " IM A GOOD PARENT" you dont have to if you know yourself that you have been one unless, you doubt yaself(: Take my mum for eg; she knows her daughter, yes me(: Simply cant be bothered with anything or anyone therefore we had a mother - daughter talk back then and it went like " youre my precious rare Gem on my crown & im the queen wearing the crown. Its up to you to either shine it or rust it but no matter what? I'll always wear my crown proudly" SO BE HUMBLE! cause you might just choke on your own words.